I wake up, it's 6:15 am, I am in this moment, a wife. We say our good mornings a quick smooch, he jumps in the shower. It's 6:32, I am me, alone for a few quiet moments of solitude.
It is 6:34, my youngest child, accompanied by her ever faithful, furry, four-legged brother, climbs/jumps into bed. I am a mother, listening to the tales of my 3-year-old's dreams, snuggling up to her warm, pj-clad body.
Out to the kitchen, rousing the other two children, on full force mommy duty.
Husband emerges, we grab sips of coffee in between rushing kids out the door to school, he to work. Roles merge, I am chaos director, wife, mom, short-order cook, dog walker.
Kids arrive at school, all but one still home with me.
Time is 8:12, off to the gym. Drop remaining child in child watch.
8:18: Alone, I am gym-rat extraordinaire. Work up sweat, chat with a few fellow friends, enjoy a bit of me time. I am me. Alone for awhile.
10:20: Pick up child, resume mommy duty.
Head to grocery store - grab necessities, plan dinner in my head, buy food.
11:10: Pickup child number two, head home. Prepare lunch for kids two and three. Mommy in full force. Play with girls, dog, clean up lunch, laundry.
1:12: Nap number three, bit of TV for number two.
1:32: Jump in shower - ahhh- me time for a few blissful minutes.
3:02: Rouse youngest from nap, load up car with girls and dog, pickup child number one. Listen to son tell about his day, return home, make snack. Check email, referee kids, homework, laundry.
4:46: Prepare dinner, chef hat officially on!
5:36: Set table, gather kids.
5:42: Greet husband- roles merge again. I am wife/mother/cook.
6:45: Prepare for bedtime routine- full mommy mode--baths given, books red, bed.
7:22: First tucked in. Only two trips back to get her settled.
7:34: Second child in bed. First trip a success.
7:46: Sit down with husband and kid number one, I am mommy/wife.
8:08: Last child down for the night.
8:12: Ahhh--wife mode--chat with husband, make tea and watch a bit of television.
9:36: Let fur-baby out (mommy mode still on!).
9:48 Head to bedroom--grab book of the moment--ahh a bit of me time!
10:27: Husband snuggles in--out for the night.
10:34: Kick dog off the bed, NOW, out for the night, ALL ME TIME!
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